It’s Not You, It’s Not Me, is a quick movie by Jaymee Mak, showing the mixed relationship between an allosexual girl plus an asexual guy, and their find it difficult to get together again their needs making use of their love for every other.

Writer, producer, and co-star Mak graciously wrote her personal story for c l Tea Collective to provide understanding to people relating to this experience that is unique. Read the film that is short and read more about her previous relationship and exactly how she tried it as motivation on her behalf very first movie.

*Content caution implicit sex

Chris (maybe not their genuine title) and I also slept together in the very first date. As oxymoronic as that seems for the asexual man to accomplish, I later on learned it absolutely was if they were the one because he wasn’t sure about his sexual identity, so he’d often sleep with women on the first date to see. The main one who does finally awaken the intimate attraction that everybody else appeared to experience.

We was indeed dating for approximately half a year whenever he was asked by me why we hadn’t had intercourse in some time. It’d been four weeks. Or two. We forget. He had been a workaholic, therefore he was frequently busy, or t tired. It bewildered me — I happened to be familiar with being the only saying no. Perhaps he wasn’t interested in me? “Maybe,” he said. He’d pointed out their exes had been mostly white females with big breasts. Read More …